[Arjen]

The point I was making was that you cannot expect from others what you will not do yourself: forgiving, forgetting, accepting. You still feel that a wrongdoer should make amends ("those who are responsible stood up for the counting and set the example that they expect the world to live by"). However, you are not in a position to state what is right or wrong, nor to ask anything from another. That is why I said to accept and forgive.

I hope you understand my point.